Funeral Planning
Saying goodbye to someone you love is one of the hardest experiences we face in life. In the midst of grief, having to make practical decisions and arrangements can feel overwhelming, especially in the first few days when emotions are still very raw.
Our role at Greaves Funeral Services is not only to help organise a funeral, but to support you with care, patience and understanding throughout the process. We we to offer you reassurance and guidance at a time when even simple decisions can feel difficult.
Every person is unique and every farewell should reflect that. There is no right or wrong way to arrange a funeral, only what feels most meaningful and appropriate for you, your family, and your loved one to celebrate their life.
The First Few Days After a Death
The days immediately after a loss can feel unreal and emotionally exhausting. It is completely natural to feel uncertain about what needs to be done first.
During this time, there are some practical matters that will need attention, including registering the death with the local Registrar. You will usually receive important documents such as:
- The Death Certificate
- The Certificate for Burial or Cremation
- The Certificate of Registration of Death
You can find more information about on our Bereavement Advice page. Where we provide an in depth step-by-step for your assistance.
Arranging the Funeral
Planning a funeral is a deeply personal experience. For many families, it is an important opportunity to honour a loved one’s life, reflect on precious memories and gather together to say goodbye.
At Greaves Funeral Service, we understand that this can feel like a great responsibility at an emotional time. Our aim is to guide you gently through each decision, giving you the time, space and support you need to create a meaningful farewell.
Whether the service is simple and quiet or more personalised and celebratory, every detail can be arranged with your loved one’s wishes, beliefs and personality in mind.
If a funeral plan has already been arranged, this may help ease some financial concerns. If not, we will always explain the available options clearly and sensitively, helping you make decisions without pressure.
Some of the things you may wish to consider include:
- Burial or cremation
- Visiting the Chapel of Rest
- Music, hymns, readings, or poems
- Personal tributes and eulogies
- Floral tributes or charitable donations
- Arrangements for family and friends after the service
We also offer online memorial pages where loved ones can share memories, leave messages of condolence and make donations in memory of the person who has died. Many families find comfort in having a space where stories and reflections can continue to be shared.
After the Funeral
The days after a funeral can often feel unexpectedly quiet. While the service itself may be over, grief does not follow a timetable and many people continue to need support long afterwards, you are not alone.
In the weeks and months ahead, you may wish to:
- Arrange a memorial or headstone
- Decide what to do with cremated ashes
- Send acknowledgements or thank you cards
- Continue charitable donations or memorial activities
It is important to allow yourself time. There is no “normal” way to grieve, and healing rarely happens in a straight line.
At Greaves Funeral Service, our support does not end on the day of the funeral. Through memorial services, local charity events, and ongoing guidance, we remain here for families whenever they may need us.
Above all, please be kind to yourself. Some days will feel harder than others, and that is completely understandable. Taking things one step at a time is enough.
If you are struggling, reaching out for support can help.
Useful organisations include:
